The Smart Aleck

Behavior: How exactly is my child behaving?

• Makes "funny" comments that actually go far beyond humor. And the cutting effect is intentional.
  
  
• Often rude, and usually disrespectful. Different from the smartmouth--the smart aleck's misbehavior includes both words and actions.
  
  
• Has been overindulged by adults.
  
  
• Tries to act superior to others.
  
  
• Attempts to cover an inferiority complex with this type of behavior.
  
  
• Denies, and hides from facing, the feeling of inferiority. Is fooling himself or herself—and possibly others.
  
  
• Whenever this child is wrong, he or she starts talking about being mistreated.
  
  
• Thrives on getting a reaction from others.
  
  
• Seldom says nice things about others.
  
  
• "Zaps" others as soon as they let their guard down.
  
  
• Has few positive relationships with adults.